Is it true that you only regret that which you've not done? Or: is it ok to feel regret - despite what the chirpy instagram quotes suggest? This new year's eve was the first time in nearly a decade that I wasn't with my Edinburgh friends - and I missed them, badly. Even though I made a decision to move back to my Kent home town to be closer to my family, and as a result have made a lovely new home and fulfilling working life for myself, as the bells rang at midnight I starte