"It isn't normal to know what we want. It is a rare and difficult psychological achievement." - Abraham Maslow I have a chronic condition. I call it Youshouldbe-itis. It doesn't matter what I'm doing, I ALWAYS have a voice in my head saying "But you should be doing this other thing...". Whether it's working on my to-do list(s), socialising, relaxing or exercising, I have a niggling feeling at the back of my mind that there's something else I've forgotten to do or have wro